Dear Marcos:

I have a five questions for you in my effort to be of any possible help to you:

1. Are you unsatisfied are you with the monogamous arrangement aka marriage you are in every day, and  from 1 to 10, ten being most unsatisfied, how unsatisfied are you?

2. How does your lack of satisfaction expresses itself in your functioning as a husband, father, an employee, and otherwise?

3. Did you tell your wife that you feel that it is unnatural for you to be with only one woman, that is, only with her? If you did, what was her response?

4. If you divorce her, how do you see your life as a father, and as an ex husband?

5. If you divorce, how do you see your life as a single man: will you let the future women in your life know in advance that you are not monogamous and that you are open to dating more than one woman at one time (or are you planning on being in a series of short, time-limited monogamous relationships, and if so, will you  be letting the women know in advance that this is your plan)?

anita