Dear NeW:

The reason I suggested that you have no contact with her is that I believe that an adult daughter who is enmeshed with her dishonest mother needs no-contact with her mother so  to mentally separate from her. You need no contact with her so that you can heal from that overdue enmeshment.

The purpose of the no contact is not to punish her or “doing the same thing as she is doing”, it’s not about her winning a power struggle.. it is not about her: it is about you, it is about you healing.

anita

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