Hi Anita, thanks so much for your response. That makes a lot of sense and I like the analogy you used. How do I get that emotional intensity back in my current experience? It feels bad to long for a feeling that’s out of reach since I’m older. Or how do I accept and honor those feelings of the past but not let them make me feel disheartened in my current relationship? I want to be really happy and focused on the love I have in my life now.