Hi Sam,

I am sorry to hear she is not really putting in the effort you hope for. It sounds like deep down you already have your answer and know what to do. Being a female myself, if I am in love I will either say it or show it. If she is not doing either, then it’s likely she is not in love with you. Especially not having met any of your friends in 2 years? That is odd to me.

You seem like a genuinely good person. A very caring, romantic person. Don’t you want to share that with someone who gives the same to you?