Hi Anita

Sorry i should have been more clear, it was about what you said “Regarding your feelings about your fiancé in relation to his grandmother, here is a possibility for you to consider and let me know if it is true: you want you and your fiancé to be The nuclear family, a family of two (you and fiancé) and future child or children.  You no longer want to be on the outside looking in. You want to be central to your fiancé. You don’t want anyone to dilute your nuclear family. (?)”

When I was living with my mother and her husband plus son I felt left out  and i felt like i didn’t belong. Me and my brother do get on though which is good. My stepdad and I had a tough relationship as we never really spoke.