Hijacking thread to say AMEN, @kiawaki!!
“I also imagine that many men, especially men on dating apps, judge women based on how ready they seem to have sex quickly, and drop them if they don’t seem easy. The problem is them, not you, and it’s a good thing not to end up with one of those, but it might feel like you are the problem if it happens so often (and with dating apps, it will). ”

This is a very true, yet sad, fact. But what we have to remember, is not to begin any in-fighting with women who do enjoy the casual hookup culture.

LW