Anita,

I didn’t really see it that way, the idea of them “not being good enough for me” seems unkind, hopefully i’m not. They are good maybe as they are, but i do want somebody that has similar visions of life maybe, or that i really think is a great person, that “stirs something in me”. I guess maybe it’s more the first one you mention, although i feel my lack of confidence doesn’t help me meet more boys and approach as well. I tend to exaggerate my thoughts a bit.

Thanks