Dear Maria:

You are welcome. If you did think that the boys/ men you met so far were not good enough for you to date- that wouldn’t have been unkind. Whatever we people think is not kind or unkind, it’s only our behaviors that can be kind or unkind. You can think anything you want and express your thoughts here without worrying if I will think of you as kind or unkind. I do want to know what you truly think because it will make it possible for me to get to know you better.

“I do want somebody that has similar visions of life maybe, or that I really think is a great person, that ‘stirs something in me'”- can you describe to me such a man: what does he talk about, how does he behave, what does he look like or sound like, etc.?

anita