Dear Nicka:

Better that she is 19 than if she was younger, but still she is a teen, 26 years younger than him, it would bother me too, if I was in your place (or the teen’s mother).

Regarding other matters, maybe I was wrong in some of my analysis earlier, and the case is simply that you have a very active mind, a very inquiring mind, curious, wanting to know more, to understand, looking at different possibilities, the bigger and bigger picture… I think you would be an excellent scientist or a private detective.

Maybe you are just too much for most men, they can’t catch up with you. It would take a very intelligent man who has his life together, living a wholesome life (not hanging out with a teenager girl, for one), so to not trigger your questioning of his integrity, and make it work with you, is my current guess. Am I closer to the truth now?

anita