Dear Laelithia:

“I apologize for my late reply, I somehow missed yours!”- if you missed my last reply to you dated June 25, which is located right above your most recent post, right there- it’s because you didn’t care to locate my last reply to you.

See the bit of dishonesty there.. “I somehow missed yours!”, with an exclamation mark!

Your recent post is about a new man= new regret. Back to your apology: you weren’t interested in reading or replying to my June 25 post to you, but you have rushed today to post, because you are very  distressed, over your most recent regret. What is to follow, I predict,  based on our communication history, is that you will vent for some time, take nothing that I wrote to you into serious consideration, but reply graciously with gratitude and references to what I wrote to you, implying that what I wrote to you made some positive difference for you.. but then, Repeat: regret, obsession.

Laelithia- I like you, I grew to like you over the years of communication, but truly, as a woman, and especially as a working psychotherapist, you need to do what you recommend your own clients do: take on the healing process seriously with a quality, professional psychotherapist.

You have to pause your obsessive regret and other self defeating repetitions of behaviors long enough to seek that quality therapy and take on that difficult healing process that I recommended that you take on, long ago.

anita

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