Dear Hector:

Your mother always complained about the deficits that you father clearly has, you wrote.

But your father did not complain about the deficits your mother had, did he. Imagine your father complaining about your mother’s deficits in the ways she complained about his, what would he say?

(You may feel uncomfortable sharing about your parents, and answering this question, so much so that it is easier to focus on the sexual topics, but, again the “sign to move on” may be in your answers to my questions).

anita