Dear Michelle:

You are welcome.

“I feel as though I’ve been chasing this hooded figure for so long, as he has yet to really turn around and show me his face. I have to consider his place in MY life. I’ve just gotten so caught up in following him”- very well written.

First, I agree: you have been chasing him. Your need for him and interest in him far exceeded his need tor you and his interest in you.

Second, “this hooded figure” is not him, it is who  you project into him. I think that you are projecting your young self (or your anxious, needy mother) into him, and you need and desire deeply to help the child that you were (or your mother).

In reality, you are chasing a man you don’t really know, who  doesn’t really need you. It is the younger you that needs your help.

“I recently consulted with a psychic that I have used for years and she basically reiterated all we have discussed here, just by what she picked up on from his photo”- not by what she picked up  on from his photo, but what she picked up from seeing and hearing you over the years, and what she knows about the human nature.

“She was adamant that she sees him in my life and that I would know further about where I stand with him next summer”- she correctly understands that you want him in your life (it is not difficult to figure that one out!) and she told you what you want to hear, so that.. you will see her again and pay her again, so to hear once again.. what you want to hear.

anita

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