Dear Michelle:

“2021 is also a year for you to work on.. your own emotional growth”- reads good to me.

“Is it possible that it wasn’t the situation that was creating suffering, but my own clinging… That disallowing myself to be authentic is really what was causing a lot of stress for me and the relationship. I just don’t know if there was a way I could’ve stripped down the bare me, but still continued to possibly advance with him”- better not cling to people, that’s not a helpful strategy. And better be authentic. On the other hand, he became  who he has become because of his childhood which had absolutely nothing to do with your clinging and authenticity: you weren’t there!

anita

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