Dear S:

“I haven’t really forgiven a lot of people”- it is not required that you will forgive everyone. We discussed the concept of being judgmental earlier on, and I said that evaluating people is not a negative thing. It is positive and necessary for healthy, functional living. Those friends who did not reach out to you after you have given them so much (the 90%)- let them go. You can even tell them your reason, if you want to.

Those who reached out to you (the 10%)- they are your people.

anita