Dear Marie:

You asked for thoughts and advice (“Thoughts and advice are welcomed”).

My thoughts: it looks to me that your new thread is about sending Angela a message that you are “Single & Happy!” (the title of your thread). In your earlier thread of a few days ago, you addressed Angela, telling her that she hurt you so badly, apologizing to her that things between the two of you didn’t work out, telling her that you were so angry with her, for so long, expressing to her that you “hope some day we can mend things”.

In this thread you wrote that you were “involved and in love” with (Angela) for 4 years, and that the two of you “are still very good friends”, and that “Maybe something will happen again in the future”.

I know that you had a thread here long ago about Angela and we communicated there, but it is not on record under your screen name, so I have no access to it. But it seems like you had a very intense relationship with her, at least on your end, and you didn’t yet give up on it, wanting to resume that relationship. But you are also hurt and still angry at her.

In this thread, reads to me, that you are talking to Angela the whole time, trying to make her jealous by mentioning a Beth (“my roommate Beth”), trying to make her feel bad  about you moving on, single and happy, maybe trying to attract her by mentioning the forever home you are hoping to buy in Arizona.

You wrote that you and Angle are “still very good friends”, but if that was true, if you were in close contact with her, why would you be addressing her on a public forum..? (don’t know).

anita