Dear Lea:

“It wasn’t an obsession about him but more about a thought, the thought of him being suddenly interested”-

– an obsession is always about a thought. When obsessing about a person, it is about obsessively thinking about the person. To obsess about someone doesn’t necessarily mean to try to contact him often, or to stalk him. It means to think a lot about him, same thoughts over and  over again to the point of becoming mentally unwell (“I started to ‘suffocate’ in my own head, literally.. It was totally impossible to properly organize my thoughts”).

“I started my message for him that for the very first time I was trying to let myself express more how I felt and being less scholar”-

– so now, your obsession is: will he respond to me positively now that I expressed myself in a different way? And you are planning to unblock him on Thursday and check to see if he responded to your message  positively. Am I correct?

anita

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