Dear Laelithia:

“when I had invited him to meet my brother, he had not yet said he .. has (a date) planned”-

– Aug 3, you wrote: “He then told me he had a date schedule the next day.. someone he knew from 8 years ago.. more of a meet up than a date”. He then told you about that date or meeting: “I’m sorry to hurt your feelings, this meeting was planned a week ago”-

– so he planned the date a week or so before you uninvited him. Therefore he did not set the meeting after you uninvited him, or because you uninvited him.

* It is interesting how you re-write history in accordance to your core belief that all that goes wrong- is your fault (“I feel like somehow it is completely my fault”).

I stopped reading your recent post as you went on and on with your obsessive thinking, expanding on your core belief that  everything is completely your fault, something you did or said wrong.

I hope you feel better soon and have a restful, good night sleep.

anita

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