Dear Lea:

You wrote to him: “I needed to spit out these thoughts in order to get the final peace of mind”- there is no such a thing as a “final peace of mind” for anyone, and especially not for a woman as anxious and obsessive as you are. The message you sent him made you feel a temporary peace of mind, that is all.

I was wondering, in your original post July 22, you wrote: “Usually people qualify me as the ‘perfect little daughter, wifey material”- can you elaborate on this sentence?

anita