Dear Maya:

You mentioned that you attend therapy- any progress there at all, regarding increasing your clarity?

For the purpose of decreasing your confusion and increasing your clarity, let’s look at the first contradictory statement you made: “It’s both our faults and not at the same time”-

– there are four options regarding the fault for the failure of the relationship: (1) his fault (2) your fault (3) his and your fault (4) not his fault and not your fault.

Which one is it (elaborate if you want to)?

anita