Dear Laelithia:

You are welcome.

1. You wrote regarding a future lifetime relationship with a partner: “I really do think it will never happen for me, that my damage is too significant to work through at this stage of my life”- in a short paragraph, can you identify what you mean by “my damage”?

2. “I supremely value men that have discarded me… I seem to value them more or want to earn or win them back”- again, in a short paragraph, what is your understanding of what drives this desire to earn or win back a man who rejects you?

anita