Thanks Peggy, that makes me feel better. I definitely see him intentionally trying to understand himself in relationship and reflect a lot on how to do things differently. I also hope he heals and continues to release his feelings and I learn not to take them on simultaneously lol.
I can see in a lot of ways how he couldn’t of dated someone like me if hadn’t of dated his ex and so I have kind of compassionate feelings about it all too. I just wish at this point it was kind of just gone for me and I didn’t almost experience the pain of it at times too. Those are really complicated feelings to take on and not really my burden.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 