Dear Indebt:

I understand that you don’t know for sure if his thoughts are about harming you, but he did say that his thoughts are bad, and that they are similar to the example you gave him (of a mother thinking of harming her baby)- so it is reasonable to suspect that his thoughts may be about harming you in one way or another.

Let’s say his “bad thoughts” are not about harming you.. it just occurred to me to ask you: did you tell him that you are afraid that his thoughts are about harming you?

anita