Dear Katrine Nielsen:

I don’t know you in real life, but I am concerned about you nonetheless. I re-read your previous thread from a month ago. You wrote back in August that you were “in a Deep Black hole”, living back at home, a home that is far from being a calm, safe place for you.

You wrote: “I’ve been in a constant battel of trying to keep my head above water as well as  others, because if I don’t give my all, they tell me that I’m selfish“- now I am thinking that by “others” you were referring to your mother (“She been on the edge for years and I’ve have been doing anything in my power to help her”), and perhaps your sister.. and your father (?). And even though you have given them your all, they still claim that you are selfish ??

You shared that you lived in London for a while, in London “For the first time in my life I started feeling like a normal person”, but back living with your abnormal home, you were “back to Square one”.

“I’m absolutely terrified. How do you help someone who doesn’t think they need help?”- please help someone who does think she need help, and that is you. Don’t drown in your mother’s misery; get yourself out of the misery she has created for you (No matter how miserable she feels, she should contain her misery so to not burden and drown you in it, it is selfish of her to do otherwise!).

Please feel free to post here anytime and I will reply to you every time you do. I hope you feel better very soon, and find a way to move out again, and this time, for good!

anita