Dear Katrine Nielsen:

You are welcome. You wrote in our original post that your mother has “been on the edge for years”, so I didn’t think that she was “the rock in our family.. the one who is always there and keeps us going”.

“I think the best for me to do is to focus on helping out with the daily chores and give (your mother) Space”- reads reasonable to me.

“(Your father)  is now in charge of dealing with my sister, so to leave me and my mom out of it”- excellent choice there. I hope he manages your sister well.

* I was wondering, what kind of brain damage does your sister suffer from?

anita