Dear Moomin:

It took you less than 15 minutes to read my long post to you, to type a reply to it and submit it. This is too fast, too fast for anyone to consider what I brought to you (it took me a few hours to put together that recent post), especially considering the sensitive nature of the topic.

If you want to, if you are able and willing, take as long as it takes, and reply to me at another time, when you are calmer or in a more accommodating state of mind, accommodating to the aim of exploring, which is what you stated that you want to do (“How this feeling can be as a result of a childhood experience. This point I would like to explore”, your first post).

“I think the description seems a bit harsh on a parent who was probably tired…”- I am not here to harm your mother. I didn’t address my recent post to your mother. I addressed it to you. It is your life experience, in the context of relationships, that has been harsh, and it is your harsh experience that I am addressing and exploring with you, not your mother’s.

anita