Dear Sarah:

I am glad to read that you removed your focus from this dilemma, which brought you nothing but stress and misery, and that you are refocused on your studies and on the people who trust you and whom you trust. Good to read that as a result, you feel composed, calm, relaxed and happy.

“I like his honestly and maybe I don’t want to let go (of) the friendship I have with him”- if you can consider him a friend only, and if he considers you the same, then you can be friends.

* A friend is a person who will promote your focus to be where it should be; someone who will promote that composed-calm-relaxed-and-happy state of mind. A person who takes your focus away from where it should be, and who promotes your distress and misery- is not a friend.

anita

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