Dear B;

You are welcome.  “I just always felt bad for him and thought he was depressed or going through a hard time. now he seems like a monster”- monsters are often people who are depressed and going through a hard time, choosing to pass along their  hard time to others, inflicting their anger and depression on others.

You wrote: “I have wasted so much time when I should have been focusing on my girls”- most of us waste so much time, invest so much time and resources and have nothing to show for it, so you are not alone in this experience.

Resolve to no longer waste time, or at least to minimize wasting your time, choosing instead to invest your time and resources, emotional and otherwhile, on worthwhile causes: your own daughters.

anita