Dear Janet:

You are welcome. You wrote in your most recent post: “it’s not fair that someone who has done so much deliberate harm and lives their life without any consequences”. I re-read some of what you shared about her bullying of you, trying to get a picture of the “so much deliberate harm” that she has caused you, a picture of what she actually did.

You wrote earlier that “being friends with her seemed like the lesser evil because whenever I tried to stand up to her, all hell would break loose. She was very spiteful… she manipulated me until the end  of high school.. Her moodiness made me so nervous to go to school… if she was in a bad mood, I would be the  one she’d take it on”-

– if you want to, and only if you feel comfortable sharing, can you give me a few concrete examples of what she, when in a bad mood, specifically said and did to you that was evil, hellish, spiteful and/ or manipulative?

anita