Dear Ryan:

“perhaps she feared that I would react as men have before.. with anger or the inability to have a rational conversation”- but she had enough experience with you to know that you are calm and rational.

“Perhaps men in the past have taken advantage of her when she’s drunk..?- ..  she had enough experience with you to know that you are not likely to do that.. and “she ended up calling an old friend and he came by to talk to her”- she called another man. Unless that man is very, very old or not of a hetero-sexual persuasion, I doubt that any other man would be less likely to take advantage of her than you!

anita