Dear Sarasa:

I think that he hid from you that he was chatting with another girl, being open to a possibility of a romantic relationship with her because he knew he was doing something wrong. When we feel that we are doing something wrong, we tend to want to hide it.

What is he doing wrong? He is hurting your feelings by keeping you waiting and hoping for a romantic relationship with him while he is pursuing another woman.

Could it be that he doesn’t want to lose you? Yes, it makes sense that he doesn’t want to lose you.

anita