Dear Sarasa:

You are welcome. Yes, you did the right thing. But because you are emotionally attached to him, you are likely to feel distressed over the separation from him and want to re-connect to him. Also, he may be selfish and reach out to you, wanting to keep you in his life while he pursues another woman for a romantic relationship.

Expect to have a difficult time following the farewell message you sent him, missing him, feeling conflicted, etc. Don’t be harsh on yourself if you change your mind and contact him or answer him when he contacts you.

If he reaches out to you, before you answer him, you can send me his message and I will let you know what I think his message means.

anita