It’s correct that I stayed too long in a marriage that hurt my emotional well-being.  At the time I believed I was being true to my wedding vows and I kept telling myself things would get better.  It’s also correct that I do not want to repeat this same mistake.  I’m now trying to have healthy boundaries and acknowledge that it’s OK for me to have things I want and need.  I don’t see how this translates to demanding and needy with my boyfriend.

How do I heal childhood wounds of abandonment?  Thanks for your time.