Dear Anna:

I don’t know the nature of his debt and how it is a  betrayal of your trust. You mentioned that he is your partner. If you and him are not a legal team (as in married), and you are therefore not responsible for his financial debts, and if he believed that he would be able to pay off the debt by a certain time without harm to you, wanting to protect you from unnecessary distress- I don’t see a betrayal.

If, on the other hand, he married you without disclosing to you a significant/ huge financial debt, and by marriage you became unknowingly responsible for his debt- that’s a betrayal.

Would you like to elaborate on the nature of what you believe to be his “Financial Infidelity”?

anita