Dear Lily:

Accountable!

“I wanted to be like these type of tough women like Lara Croft. I tried to be edgy and felt like being shy and friendly was somewhat uncool, I tried to be something I was not. Or I do not know, do I have a bit of these strong women in me?”- yes, as a matter of fact, I do believe that you have.. a bit more than a bit of a strong woman in you. For one, you are Accountable every single day: how many members post here every single day  just like they said they would, and for such a long time? I am glad you brought this topic up because- for the reason I mentioned, and for other reasons- in my mind, you are a strong woman!

anita