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My friend..
When you were born, was it with the purpose of becoming a slave to another?
Or, did you volunteer?
I share.. Sincerely.. No waste time in polite..
On the time everything begins and on the time everything ends. End this time or that time. Does not matter. That is the basic law in the life.
In the marriage there is a Law to enter and a law to exit.
In your message I see many delusions from you grasping in imagination of hope.
You must wake up.
How many signs of your partners unbalanced behaviour did you need before it’s too late?
All you are missing is the courage to see and accept everything that has taken place and take the correct action.
At the time you became married was also the beginning of the end.
In your marriage is your cause and effect brought together by the path of emotions.
What is the price of your Soul?
Nobody belongs to anyone in this life. Not even in the prison of a marriage.
You can not imagine your marriage ending is your delusional attachment to the appearance of the marriage. Of not see the limit of all things in the life.
I share sincerely..
A jealous possessive man is a dangerous man no matter what he may say once his madness had passed from his emotions.
In your words you write, the way is very clear.
You only need courage to keep going and respect yourself and the life enough to let go.
What is the purpose of your life?
To keep growing and discovering or suffer in the cage of abuse?
You must wake up.
See that all things have limit. Respect limit and respect your Soul.
I understand that inside the marriage is the occasion where 2 Souls pay together. Until they payed enough. That is the law of cause and effect.
But my friend..
If you do not wake up to see everything clearly from Wisdom. Your emotional attachments to the emotions of another will be the cause of your mistake.
You must see what your effect will be from not having the the courage and confidence to cut your emotions with your situation and keep moving with your life.
No one is that special my friend. I see your marriage only as the occasion for your Soul and his to pay together. Until enough.
But now you know it has finished. You know inside you. You know it has become a dangerous possesive space that has absolutely nothing to do with LOVE.
Its yourself you must love.
Enough to stand up inside and do what is right with your Soul and the Life.
Where is your trust in the life. And ending is always a new beginning.
I share strong with you.
But from compassion and understanding.
Nothing in this life can destroy you. Only you destroy yourself from not taking the correct action from fear and attachments.
There is no coming back to anything in this life.
Only repeat. Repeat. Repeat.
Keep going. With time will appear the distance. In the distance will appear fresh possibilities.
It takes great courage to keep living.
If you see correctly you will see right now. You are lucky. You have the occasion to escape. You did.
The only thing that can bring you back into the cage of your suffering is your emotional slavery to an object. Object meaning your husband.
My friend..
The life always creates the occasion to escape this or that on the time.
Mistake of everyone is they did not see it from becoming blind and deaf from their emotions.
The cage is open my friend.
You only need courage to use youWings again.
They are always ready.
Ready!
Fly or not fly..
Depends you.