No no wait, I’m got confused…

We started our relationship on June 18th and until Sunday 27th afternoon, I was happy, he was happy, warm, super romantic. Since the evening/night of the 27th when the “incident” happened, he became colder and he progresses to being more and more distant and typical by the hour. Also to add, that Sunday, I clarified to him that I do desire him, I do want to be with him and have sex down the line but I’m not yet ready for it. I added that I’ve been hurt in the past, when I had sex faster than what I thought was right and that I didn’t want to mess it up this time because what we have is so good. I said I always wait for about a month give or take to get to know the person before having sex for the 1rst time.  To which he replied he is okay with waiting, but he hates that I put a “timetable” on when to have sex. I again clarified that it is not a timetable, I don’t mean a month to the day, it could be minus or plus some days. He insisted that I shouldn’t have told him and that this puts pressure on him and that he hated that I have this “box” that I have to “check”. No matter how many times I explained that it has nothing to my attraction to him and that it’s all about feeling safe and ready.

Hope it clarifies.

Yes, maybe Anita, I did overlook all the darkness, again, meaning all the red flags.