One thing which I noticed is whenever I ask his details,  he ll change the topic to me or completely diverts to something else. I started doing this to him in recent times, he cut shorts the conversation.  And once when I asked why he is not available,  he asked me if I want a gift. That made me more angry. Only last month, for the very first time I heard this from him ” I know what I do and why it hurts u. That’s the reason I bear your anger in return ” this was in response to when I suggested taking responsibility for his actions instead of diverting the topic.