Hi Teak, I found an interesting read about hold n cold treatment displayed by a narcissistic .                                                            https://addictedtoloveanddrama.wordpress.com/2015/04/22/narcissistic-behavior-4-blowing-hot-and-cold/                                            this woman’s story is different but the rest of it is exactly what happened to me. Thanks much for throwing light on this , i get it now. This seems really cool 🙂  no second thoughts on getting rid of him. I have a strong  urge to post this link to him and see his reaction…. devilish  satisfaction.   Checked out other signs of a narcissistic person, looks like he is expert in only this department.