Dear Charity:

Congratulations for divorcing your abusive husband!

I don’t know why your current husband has been refusing to invite his male friend to the house he shares with you and your kids. Do you have any information about your husband’s friendship history with this male friend?

” I don’t trust him. I feel hard to love. I feel worthless. I feel like I’ll never be with anyone that can love me and respect me the way I believe a wife should be. Am I being dumb? What is so wrong with me?“-

-I am so sorry that you feel all these things: mistrust, worthlessness, hopelessness, doubt.. You ask what is so wrong with you.. – anyone feeling worthless and hopeless feels very wrong. You are welcome to share here more about your feelings and anything else that comes to your mind, and I will read and reply further.

anita