I should add a comment, I have noticed his behavior is both controlling and dismissive at points… however because I was so independent, it didn’t bother me when he didn’t reply for hours, or chose to go on a trip without me, as I had other things to do as well. The only thing that bothers me is he seems to never consider my opinion, but I consider his,  and I am more willing to compromise on most things. So I always am the one to compromise or change.