Dear Emmy:

You are welcome. You shared that you tried psychiatric medications, moldavite, selenite, sage, rock lamp, and the results with all of these: “temporary relief, but then it all comes back“. This is then what you can reasonably expect from all these things if you try them again: temporary relief at best. (Temporary relief is better than no relief; sometimes it’s all that a person can get).

In what I refer to as my healing journey, after a long enough time and persistent practice, I finally experienced permanent relief in some areas (guilt, physical exhaustion, depression, OCD), partial relief in other areas (anxiety), and no relief in yet other areas (Tourette Syndrome)

I asked you if your mother still makes everyone turn on you, and if you are still blamed for everything. You answered: “This is and is not continuing… “I say it does because the blame game is still a thing” – for healing, the answer needs to be instead: this is not continuing, and the blame game is not a thing!

“I don’t allow my mother and family to disrespect me, I’m also called ‘the bitch’” -if the information that you are called “the b****” by whomever is reaching you at the present time, then you are still being disrespected by whomever is passing this information to you.

“I just walk away and cut people out, if they haven’t already cut me out” – did you cut abusive people permanently out of your life, including family members, or do you cut some abusive people out of your life for a while and then reconnect?

“I limit my contact w my mother, and she does w me as well. She doesn’t like me, so much so I really thought I wasn’t her kid and took a dna test” – that’s amazing, my goodness! How is the limited contact with her affecting you, and why do you keep any contact with her, if I may ask?

anita