Dear Lily Margarette:

Having read both your threads, seems to me that all the social unfairness and disrespect that you’ve been experiencing for so long is too difficult to carry inside, day after day, week after week, etc. I think that it is very, very important that you attend couple counseling/ psychotherapy with your husband. If he refuses to go, then it is equally important that you attend individual counseling. Following a few sessions with a quality therapist, you will be in a better place to figure out what you need to do for your own- and your children’s- peace of mind.

anita