Dear Lily Margarette:

These forums are not a psychotherapy setting and I am not a therapist, but in the context of self-help, maybe I can be of some help to you.

Self-help is a process of sharing common experiences, giving and getting help. If you are interested, we can start with a couple of questions I have for you. You are always welcome of course to not answer any and all questions asked of you by me or by any other member. You are welcome to ask me questions and I will be glad to share with you my experiences that are relevant to yours.

anita