Dear Sesha:

You are welcome and thank you for your kind words. But truth to be told, leaving my mother and venturing into the world on my own was the easiest thing I ever did. It felt like taking in a breath of fresh air. On the other hand, living and visiting my mother felt suffocating. It was so difficult to do.

I hope you manage to no longer blame yourself for what you are not guilty of, and that it will become clear to you, over time, what it is exactly that you are not guilty for. Give the blame to whom the blame belongs, so to clear yourself of blame that doesn’t belong with you. Feel free to post anytime you feel like it, and I will be glad to reply to you whenever you post.

anita