I’ll try to have a good night, you as well.

Hopefully we understand, but I still think she’s upset I stopped reaching out to her. She’s not willing to reach out with me for whatever reason but wanted me to text and call her still (which is confusing because people say she hasn’t been interested in me??). She was really interested in me so she would reach out when I vanished, then she got a guy and moved away with him and things changed. Wanted me to still keep in touch, but I slowly stopped when I noticed she was giving me less friendship energy and started complaining more and getting frusterated because she would text me back pretty quickly and we would text in the morning and it stopped. I then found out her guy and her split up and I messaged her if everything was ok with her? and we hit it off there again. Lots of texts, phone calls, saw eachother a few times including her surprising me wanting to see me the day before we were going to hang out. Then a few months later I decided that was enugh and she seemed fine so I said to her at the end of the phone call “Ok see you later i’ll message you in a few months”, she said in an upset voice “no! message and call me and i’ll message and call you!”, that was basically the beginning of the end…once I said that i’ll message her in a few months things kinda went woop!

Still getting annoyed I gotta wait an entire day to get a text back from her while she’s on facebook messaging people and made her feel bad about it, said sorry and she slowly started delaying the phone calls. One time she “forgot”, other times “not feeling up to it today”, or she would call me suuuuper late. So she was annoyed with the text thing and annoyed with me  vanishing for months, but she could have easily text or called me anytime, even told her as much. Then the final straw was when I got annoyed and said I didn’t really wanna hang out anyway and I would see her in the summer time.

But that’s what I think, could be wrong but don’t think I am. I am pretty smart at these things even if I am such a feminine guy (which is bad…a man has to be masculine). Maybe 1 day in the faaaaaarrrrrr future I will reach out and say hello, but she ended things so she must have been THAT hurt, especially since it was a text and not a phone call. She even said as much in her text “it doesn’t feel good when it doesn’t feel good because of my slow replies etc”.