Hi Nova

It sounds like you might have some concerns about your current relationship. Would you like to discuss them?

My concern with this individual you dated for a month is that really isn’t long enough to know him. He knows you’re engaged and has children yet is still pursuing you. You have to be a pretty shady individual to break up a family. Plus, there is zero security there. If you broke up with your partner for this individual, he might walk away when he’s had his fun.

If you end the relationship with your partner, it should be because it is what you want. Not because of another individual.