Dear JemJem:

“I am scared she causes trouble for me , spreading stories… the worry that she will cause trouble/drama for me is worrying…  the drama I may encounter may not be worth it” – but what is it about Emma’s or Tara’s drama that is dangerous to you, what is it that is so powerful about their words.. or is it their deeds? If you imagine the worst that either one can do to you, what is it?

I mean practically, how can any one of them harm you?

I used to be so afraid of people hurting me in the future that I didn’t realize that all the hurt was already done to me.  I will be back to your thread in about 9 hours.

anita