Dear Anonymouscat:

You wrote that she told you that her parents will not approve of a relationship/ marriage with you, and you wrote that she can’t give you a timeline to when she’ll visit you in a different country than hers. I am guessing that if she is dependent on her parents’ approval, she will not be able to leave her country to see you with their approval. And so, the only way for her to visit you is to lie to her parents… ?

I hope to read more from you and discuss your situation further. Maybe it will help you just a bit.

anita