Dear Hero:

“A lot of people have supportive family members and friends who help raise young children… I don’t have any“- it would have been nice if you had supportive family.

“It’s hard most of the time . But it gives me peace knowing that the important things we need are covered because I’m the provider“- you are the provider and it is hard most of the time, yet you do it, day after day.. admirable!

“Hero – a person who is admired or idealized for courage, outstanding achievements“- amazing: when I wrote “admirable” right above, it was before I read this sentence (this morning), not having your word “admired” in mind. So, we both agree!

“I think I’m making plans too fast . I want higher pay but I’m not ready . I have to do one thing at a time . First I have to move to a new apartment  then I can change careers . I’m causing myself stress . I want better for myself“- Moderation and Patience are key, one thing at a time, one step at a time… you got it, Hero!

anita