Dear StoutHeartedMen:

You are very welcome and thank you for expressing your appreciation with such grace!

“It also occurred to me that, just as all things change from moment to moment, people may change from moment to moment… I will keep in mind that each incident listed above is caused by different moments and memories in my friend 4’s life, while at the same time opening myself to the idea that she can change”- unlike what it takes for things to change, it takes intent, motivation and persistence for people to significantly change negative attitudes and rude. abusive behaviors. If she doesn’t have the intent and motivation to start with… she is not likely to change. Maybe… just maybe,  an appropriate confrontation by you/  the group will steer her toward forming an intent to change.

“I hope to change this in myself by becoming the type of compassionate man that empowers and stands up for others“- you form the intent to empower and stand up for others, thank you for this!

anita